All relationships, whatever they are, NEED truth.
That’s about as clear as you can get. If you want a relationship, a family, or a friendship to last, you need to have truth.
No one likes lies. Lies hurt. They break trust, they mock what’s true, they reveal cowardice, and in the end lead to nothing but nothing.
Those amazing relationships that everyone sees and wishes they had last BECAUSE there is truth. The truth, whether good or bad, is communicated and dealt with. How people respond to truths is entirely up to them and their humility and maturity, but nonetheless it all leads down to whether you will even reveal the truth or not.
Even if you’ve done something shady or wrong, your friends, family and significant others would like to know. It shows that you care about yourself and them enough to admit your faults and genuinely want to become a better person.
If you are reluctant to reveal your truths because of fear of judgement or whatever you name it, then you’re depriving yourself of true love.
Lies hurt. Lies destroy relationships.
“There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.” -1 John 4:18
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