I think what bothers people the most when they lose a facebook friend, or a tumblr follower, or a real life friend or whatever, is that it makes them afraid of losing people they actually care about.
Sure maybe you didn't even know the person who unfollowed you on tumblr but it still makes you insecure. Am I boring? Am I not original enough? What is it about me that would make you choose to break off a connection with me?
No matter what, even with all the other 2839847+ people loving you in your life, you worry over the one that left. Why? Maybe because you're afraid that out of the other 3249342 people that love you, some of them may, in some way or the other, hold the same view about you. They just don't show it or they overlook it.
But still, it's a risk that they too just might leave because of this unknown flaw.
In the end, it all comes down to trust and who really is worth fighting for.
Sometimes you just gotta let go, because it honestly doesn't matter.
Continue on the search for who you are. You'll find what and who matters most to you, when to let go, and when to keep fighting.
God bless!
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